The Friendship of Jesus

November 2, 2025

Series: Misc Sermons

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Scripture: John 15:9-16

The Essence of Friendship with Jesus

  • Pastor Tommy reflects on the concept of friendship, noting the difference between acquaintances and true friends.
    • Many people have acquaintances but few genuine friends.
  • He recalls Arthur McMillan’s statement: “I consider you my friend, but my best friend is Jesus.”
  • Pastor Tommy emphasizes that friendship with Jesus is a constant challenge, pushing one to become more like Him.
    • Friendship with Jesus challenges individuals to become less like themselves and more like Him.

Qualities of Jesus as a Friend

  • Jesus Talks to Me
    • Unlike casual friends, Jesus communicates regularly, even when Pastor Tommy isn’t actively seeking Him.
    • His voice dispels darkness and changes perspective.
    • Pastor Tommy references Exodus 33, where God spoke to Moses as a man speaks to his friend.
    • God’s voice brings life and reveals the need for salvation, unlike the condemnation from the enemy.
    • There is no confusion in the voice of God.
    • God has shared eternal truth.
    • The Holy Spirit speaks the Word of God into the soul, rescuing with that Word.
  • Jesus Loves Me
    • A friend loves at all times (Proverbs 17:17).
    • God’s love is unconditional, even when one is unlovable.
    • 1 John 4:10: God loved us and sent His Son as propitiation for our sins.
    • Jesus proved His love by laying down His life for His friends (John 15:13).
    • If Jesus didn’t love you for even a second, you would know it.
  • Jesus Protects Me
    • Jesus protects from worldly fears and the enemy’s snares (Luke 12:4).
    • He is always present, like a brother who sticks close.
    • He puts a hedge and wall of love around.
  • Jesus Corrects Me
    • Faithful are the wounds of a friend (Proverbs 27:6).
    • Correction and chastening are signs of God’s love (Hebrews 12:6).
    • A true friend will point out when you are going down the wrong path.
    • The Holy Ghost arrested Pastor Tommy’s soul and revealed the reality of hell.
    • Jesus offers a better way and salvation.
  • Jesus Died for Me
    • Jesus left heaven and became flesh to pay the penalty for sin.
    • A search was made in heaven, on earth, and under the earth, and only Jesus was found worthy to go.
    • The angel announced the birth of a Savior in Bethlehem.
    • Jesus was born to die and become the greatest friend.

Story of a New Friend at the Airport

  • Pastor Tommy shares an anecdote about meeting a man at the airport who wanted to be his friend.
  • The man was outgoing, calling multiple people to share that he made a new friend.
  • He asked Pastor Tommy to play Uno and wanted to text him regularly.
  • Pastor Tommy reflects that God was sharing something with him about a person that didn’t have another motive, he just wanted to be my friend.

How to Know Jesus as a Friend

  • Believe in Him
    • Faith and trust are essential.
    • Abraham was called the friend of God because he believed God (James 2:23).
    • John 3:16: Believe in Jesus to have everlasting life.
  • Obey Him
    • Jesus said, “Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you” (John 15:14).
    • Trust and obey.